Yes, I will....!

Getting married...

The word marriage brings you the ideal situation of a pre-planned ceremony that elaborates happiness and a joyous occasion. Many of us will be awed by the bride and the groom on that particular day. There is this extraordinary glow on each of their face. Many have mentioned that, it's that special glow that makes them look startling.

Do you believe so, or is it because every one of us would be so happy on that day, that our smile, in actual fact, makes us look "glowy"?

Let's cut the crap. What I am trying to drive at is, not about how beautiful the bride or groom is. In fact, I want to bring you to a place, where the special moment actually begins.

The proposal.

Many of us would think that this is something that is of insignificant. Do you really know that it makes a big impact on some people? Asking for the hand in marriage is a must for every couple. But, why should it be the guy asking and not just bout anyone of the two? Well, I deem it's because it's the guys that would have to make themselves ready prior to the invitation. Previously, the girls have no say in this. They just tag on….

Many girls would want this moment to be as romantic as possible. Like a bunch of 99 red roses and the men going down on their knees, presenting them with a nice ring. Looking into her eyes and then popping out the question... "Will you marry me?"

Some guys would just take a short cut by asking... "So, when do u want to buy a flat with me?" or just simply "Let's go to HDB tomorrow and apply for a flat." Maybe its not romantic, but it just drive the question straight right to the girls face. Isn't it the same?

Girls, if that is going to be so unromantic of your boyfriend, do you think you deserve a day at a park with helicopter driving past with a banner tagging, saying "Will you marry me, Anna?" do you think you need all that? Making the headlines with a proposal?

After some thoughts, I would think that by simply popping out the question by surprise without the other party knowing it would just be great. Example, by writing on a piece of sponge "Will you marry me?" and then just stuff it in her pocket, subsequently just ask her for change. Sweet isn’t it? Who would have thought that he is asking for your hand in marriage when all that you as expecting is a birthday gift?

Guys, there are many ways that you can pop out the question. You just need to be C.R.E.A.T.I.V.E.

Who? Me? Hah! My wife still thinks that I owe her a proper proposal. What? I sent my mum to propose to yo... The traditional way. You did say yes, didn’t you? I think that is the end of the story. You did say yes and it’s still as sweet as honey. Dun you dare rake it up... *wink