AIDAH>> Goodbye to a great friend today.She left this morning for uk where she is based now.I felt really guilty coz eventhough she was here for two weeks,i couldn't really spend time with her.Except for a few days of breakfast in that two weeks,we mostly communicated thru calls n smses.Juz like when she is in uk.Ironic right? Anyway it was an emotional and tearful goodbye for us.We had to part when both of us needed each others companion badly.But her daughter comes first.She missed her baby terribly while she was here.She, being a single parent,her whole universe revolves around her daughter.Her baby is her sun, moon and the stars.And when they are there,they only have each other for comfort...

While waiting for her flight this morning,we managed to have breakfast at the canteen there.We talked about her life there and how she felt really lonely when she has no one to talk to.We chatted about almost everything including about her past marriage and about a close guy fren's plan for marriage.We dun really think he is ready for the commitment.He probably has to get married because his mum wants him to.Not because he really loves his girlfriend.What a pity.Not for him but for the girl.Anyway,we decided to pose him some questions which we hope he can answer thruthfully and save the girlfriend from a miserable marriage.So here goes...

What is it about some married men who can lie effortlessly without blinking an eye to his wife and hopes that she will never find out?

What is it about some married men who religiously say 'I love u' to his wife but stab her in the back with his infidelity dagger?

What is it about some married men who pretends like nothing happened after each argument with his wife hoping that his wife will forget about it and get on with life?

What is it about some married men who temporarily forgot about his marriage vows when faced with temptations?

What is it about some married men who will only show his concern to his wife only when he wants to.Not when when she needs it? And lastly..

What is it about some boyfriends who promised to keep his girlfriends happy and will not let any tears drop from her precious eyes but make a wife's life miserable right from the start of marriage when he becomes a husband?

These are just some questions some men who planned to get married can ponder on..To those already married,if you are one of the above,dun blame ur wife when she walks away...