I can't believe it! For the second out of 3 times, people has dubed me as a kid. Dun they have feelings or cant they just open their bloody eyes! I m going to turn 30 next year and yet they do not take me seiously! Must I keep goatee or have my white hair just so people know that I m gettting older and mature?

I do not see how people can just look at me and say that I look below 20. You thought that I m joking dun you? But that is wat people has been thinking- twice this week alone. Hmmm... maybe the genes, but looking 30 and 20 is absolutely a no, no.

I am really furious this time round! For those who knows me well, I may accept the fact that I dun act 30, but those people who just knew me, dubbing me as under 20 is too much! I wont possibly wear those 'abang' clothing. wearing a shirt to me is like donning sweater in Singapore. Enuff said.

I still cannot take the fact! Gosh!

Why must people still ask for my ic when i buy ciggs...

Well, the answer is... c",)

because I am cute.... *wink

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For Those who wanna quit, here is my advice...

If you've tried to quit before and failed, your chances of success are better...not worse!
Most tobacco users who try to quit don't succeed the first time. With each attempt to quit, you learn something new. The combination of these learning attempts prepares you for the final drive to success.
An idle mind is the playground of the devil.
Successful quitters recognize one important fact. As they begin to slow down their rate of tobacco use, they have more time to fill. If they fill their minds with nothing, the ugly prospect of relapse looms high. That's why successful quitters get busy with hobbies, sports and other activities. When the Marlboro man calls, leave a message...I'm out having a ball. Can't see you today!
Have a "Quit Buddy."
It's better to talk with someone who's experiencing the same set of emotions as you are. We suggest you get one of your friends to quit with you. In addition, the LifeSign program includes a free support telephone line to trained counselors who are ready to listen and talk with you as you go through the program.
Why does your own personal plan of quitting usually fail?
It sounds a little harsh to say that any plan of quitting you come up with yourself is doomed to failure. But this isn't a self-serving statement for the companies that market quit smoking programs. Maybe you've heard tobacco users say they cut down on their own but just couldn't get beyond a certain point. There actually is a very logical reason why "home-grown" quit programs fail. You see, when you start to cut back, which smokes, dips or chews do you eliminate, the ones you enjoy the most? No. You subconsciously cut out the least enjoyable cigarette, dip or chew. And, in this subtle way you actually reinforce your habit. What is needed is a systematic plan such as LifeSign that gradually eliminates tobacco across the board.
Be realistic. Quitting smoking is not easy.
If you've been taken in by the occasional tobacco user who tells you it was a piece of cake to quit, remember you're listening to the exception not the rule. Listen to those that have struggled, learned and won. A good dose of realistic thinking will prepare you to succeed better than anything else.
Smoke, dip or chew at times you DON'T want to.
Even though you've heard that nicotine is one of the strongest addictive drugs, there is hope. There are two sides to your addiction... physical dependence on nicotine and habit. Once you recognize and change those habitual times that you use tobacco you begin to weaken the chains that bind you. This is something the LifeSign program does automatically. You can do it on your own and hasten the day when your habits of smoking are broken.
Adopt a specific quit program... and stick to it.
Once you've made that all important decision, don't allow yourself to waiver... to make exceptions and stir away from the program.
Don't smoke automatically.
Make yourself aware of each cigarette by using the opposite hand or putting cigarettes in an unfamiliar location or a different pocket to break the automatic reach.
Tell the world you're quitting.
Closet quitters aren't successful. Keeping quiet about quitting almost ensures failure... because no one is pulling for you in the biggest challenge of your life. Hold yourself accountable for your commitment by announcing it to your friends, and family. Some even go as far as to make a bet with someone that they can quit. Put your cigarette money aside for every day, and forfeit it if you smoke. Going public like this gets people to join your team... to provide you with the moral support you need.
Quit tobacco the way you started... gradually.
You did not get to the point where you are over night and it is unrealistic to think you can quit overnight. By quitting gradually you learn new coping skills each step of the way.
Start thinking like a non-smoker or chewer.
If inwardly you say you're a tobacco user and always will be, you'll find the thought of quitting a strange one. That's why its effective start rearranging your personal view of yourself. There are some simple things you can do to reverse the process. For example, sit in the non-smoking section of a restaurant and visualize yourself as a non-smoker. These techniques will not automatically convert you from a tobacco user, but they will cultivate a changed internal view of yourself.
Don't be taken in by the "cravings for the rest of your life" trick.
Some tobacco users fear that the strong urges they currently have to smoke or chew will persist for their entire lifetime. Anyone who seriously believes this will hardly want to swim upstream where those strong currents of the urge will push you under. Here's where the application of a simple truth will help. It's the urge, when successfully handled, that makes it easier to cope with the next craving. In short, one success makes the next successful resistance that much easier.
Weight gain is not inevitable.
It is true that there is a 30% change in metabolism when the artificial stimulus of nicotine is removed. However, you can counteract this change and actually lose weight. Just as an athlete overcomes injury by over-compensating, tobacco users should take similar steps to overcome weight gain. Avoid sweets, eat non-caloric health snacks, and begin an exercise program.
Measure your progress against realistic short-term goals.
Imagine a mountain climber who after his first day's effort to climb Mt. Everest despairs... because he didn't reach the peak. This sounds ridiculous, but some smokers fall into a similar trap. Establish short term goals along the way and reward yourself for successful achievements of each phase.
Write down all the reasons you want to quit.
Those who succeed at quitting get specific. And nothing helps so much in this regard as committing your reasons to writing. You might even summarize those reasons on a small card and carry it with you throughout the day.
Testing yourself with the just one cigarette or chew is risky.
Successful quitters tell us something worth noting. Once they quit, they cut loose from any attempt to test themselves to see if they really quit. Keeping a pack of cigarettes and a lighter or a can of snuff on hand "just in case" is dangerous.
Don't fall for the "just one cigarette" or "just one dip" myth.
Research shows that most of the people who smoke or chew "just one more" start again. There's only one safe thing to do, when "just one more" sounds possible, think to yourself: "It's a myth." Play it safe, if you've been successful... stick to it and let your success be as long as your life.
Avoid high risk situations.
Right now make a list of your most common smoking or chewing situation. Then figure out your own plan on how you will avoid these situations. Avoid people who smoke heavily or sit in the non-smoking section of restaurants. Confirm your good habits by avoiding high-risk smoking or chewing situations.
Take non-cigarette breaks.
What was so pleasant about your former cigarette breaks. Smoking was part of it, but there are other trappings of the breaks that you don't have to give up. Enjoy the change of scenery. Talk with others. Just because you are not smoking doesn't mean you can't enjoy the activities associated with the old breaks.
Physical withdrawal symptoms are good!
Sure the withdrawal symptoms are not fun, but look at it this way. These physical manifestations are a sign that your body is beginning to heal itself. As the healing process completes, the pain will go away.
Exercise works like magic.
There is a simple way to ease stress, lose weight and help you to cope with urges. Exercise. You don't need to run a marathon, or go to aerobics class 5 nights a week. Recent evidence indicates that even moderate exercise can be beneficial such as a 10 minute walk three times a week.